ADVERSITY INTRODUCES A MAN TO HIMSELF
Have
you ever waken up on the wrong side of the bed? Have you ever waken up wishing
you can stay in the bed the whole day and you absolutely don’t know why? People
would ask why but you also don’t know the answer.
How
many times have you gone to bed just hoping you never wake up to face the
treacherous waters of life?
How
many times have you wished you where this inanimate creature that doesn't have
to go through some of the down moments in life?
How
many times have someone told you, “It’s going to be okay”, but it never is?
Life
is a mystery. No matter how much of a genius you are, you can never have it all
figured out. And this is not because you are not good enough, it’s because, it’s
the mysteries of life that make you grow every day. Life is cyclic, sometimes
you up and sometimes you are down.
Everyone
is happy and healthy when everything is going on well in life. Just as one
songwriter said, “Life is easy when you are up on that mountain”. Because when
you are up there, the view is better, the air is better and fresher, as my 11th
grade teacher would say, “The higher it
goes, the cooler it becomes”. That is where we all want to be. Nobody wants
to be miserable or poor. No. We all want to be rich, comfortable. We want all
the positive things going on for us.
But
during those down moments, during those days when you are in the valley; that’s
when your faith is tested, that’s where growth takes place. Someone said, “Adversity introduces a man to himself”. During
those down moments, that’s when you undertake the journey of self-exploration,
something Abraham Maslow would refer to as Self- Actualisation. Therefore,
adversities, failure, miseries are put in a man’s life journey, not to punish him
but to train him to grow. Problems will always be there, but part of the
process of reconditioning your mind is to change how you look at a problem.
In
conclusion, don’t judge your life because of what’s going on now. No. If you
are going through some hard time, it has not come to stay, it has come to pass.
To
your success in the journey of reconditioning your mind,
Tresford Kasashi Manda
Network Marketing Entrepreneur
tresfordmanda@gmail.com

